Forgive Me
Have you ever experienced the pain of being hurt, rejected, let down or deceived? It's a pain that can permeate every ounce of your being reflecting, impacting and influencing your thoughts and actions.
What a burden to carry. You don't want to get hurt, deceived or let down again so you build a wall around you that keeps all potential pain at bay. A wise strategy in some ways, but this wall that you have carefully maintained to keep pain out also restricts and suppresses the real you. You potentially become lost in the war between, past rejection, deception and pain, infecting and affecting who you really are.
Long after a painful past experience, to still be resentful, angry and hurt, takes a lot of psychological and mental effort. All those feelings create a black cloud around your life, a ball and chain that weighs and burdens you down.
People sometimes say 'I may forgive but I cannot forget'. To forgive and forget is the most effective strategy to set yourself free from your past painful memories.
By holding onto the past you restrict your ability to take hold of your future. By focusing on what benefits forgiveness has for you, the act of forgiveness will become an enhancement and benefit for you and your life, not the other person or party.
Forgiveness is a lasting gift you give to yourself. When you choose to forgive, you choose to live in the present and the future instead of the past.
So release your pain, throw away your burdens and forgive. Even better, forget your pain or hurt of yesterday.
Set yourself free from the confines of these emotions through the power of forgiveness.
If you or someone you know is having difficulty letting go of past hurts, our Trained Advisors are ready to talk and help you walk through new Life Choices.
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